How to Deep Throat Like a Professional
The moment a man puts his hand on your head so that you can give him a bj like a pornstar, you may think “no, I’m going to gag.” Therein lies the problem – the gag reflex. Once you train yourself not to feel controlled by your gag reflex, you’ll have oral sex locked down like a professional. This guide may feel daunting. Why would you want to deep throat in the first place? He likely hasn’t experienced deep throating with anyone else. It’s intimate. This guide should be called “he’s going to crave you all the time now.”
How to deep throat
The way to master deep throating is to practice. That sounds entirely unpleasant at first. Likewise, for people who want to try anal, it’s not unlikely that he or she will practice with a dildo. The same goes for deep throating. It takes practice to train yourself. Rather than responding inadvertently because your throat isn’t used to enveloping anything, you’ll start to feel familiar with the sensation.
After some practice, you can practice on your partner. You can start with a blow job and when he’s nearing his climax, you can try what you’ve practiced. If you gag a little bit, it’s okay. More than likely, he’ll find that arousing. You’ll just want to be careful that you don’t hurt him – hence the reason for practicing. You want to manage your laryngeal spasm (gag reflex, but it sounds hotter to say spasm).
You can, of course, start with your fingers. It’s also helpful to purchase a dildo to practice. That way, you avoid choking on any food that you’ve read will help you practice curbing your gag reflex such as a hot dog, banana, or sausage. You know, all the food that has a reputation for being phallic. It’s important to remember that you’re choosing to deepthroat to enjoy your partner. You don’t want to make a chore out of it. You also don’t want to put yourself in danger by using phallic-shaped food that will lead you to need the Heimlich maneuver.
The sexual position you use can help you. For example, if you’re lying on your back with your head over the edge of the bed, you’ll have an easier time deep-throating. You’ll want to practice with your partner. The more you do, the more you’ll find positions that will work best. Even if you find the most ideal position, you may still gag. It’s normal. With more practice, you won’t feel overwhelmed by the gag reflux. Instead, you’ll find a way to make it part of his and your intimacy.
Don’t worry about the heap of saliva you’ll produce in the process. Whether you’re deep-throating your man or preparing to do so, the saliva will work as a lubricant. You’ll likely want to use lube beforehand, anyway. For fuck’s sake, don’t forget to breathe. Breathe out your nose and also pace yourself. If you need to take a break, it’s okay. Plus, remember that it’s not permanent. By deepthroating, you’re making the sex memorable.
That doesn’t mean that you have to stay in the same position forever. When you gag, as you inevitably will, make it part of the experience for both of you by not being deterred or phased. Take it at your own pace. It’ll get easier and more enjoyable with practice!